Every day you hear some content creator or marketer preaching about storytelling and why it’s important, or the typical: “It will make you millions!” The truth is, storytelling is important, and it can make you millions—but why is there more value to it than material benefits? It’s a social skill that also improves communication skills in both your personal and professional life. I mean, have you ever sat through one of Jimmy’s going-nowhere stories? Or have you ever felt awkward telling a story you thought was great, and you just received a blank stare? Well, sometimes my stories or jokes don’t land like I feel they will.
So, I’m gonna embark on a mini journey to research the science and process of this modern day skill that we are losing more and more in the digital age. So, let’s start with the facts: The science of storytelling.
The Perfect Blend: A Cocktail of Chemicals in the Brain
When someone tells a story—especially a good one—it causes our brains to produce and release a cocktail of chemicals. These chemicals are released based on the content of the story and how we react to what we’re hearing. A variety of chemicals like dopamine, oxytocin, cortisol, and endorphins are released, making the experience not just heard, but felt. The reason is that certain topics cause our brains to engage in this behavior—releasing these chemicals—to help us better understand the story through feelings, as emotions. Stories are stimulations for the brain, a human trait and tool for survival and a good thing to have in your life from time to time.
- Dopamine – Our brains release dopamine during suspenseful moments, surprises, or satisfying endings in a story. This chemical boosts focus and attention, while also enhancing memory retention, making the moment more vivid and memorable.
- Oxytocin – When we feel empathy, or when we build an emotional connection with the characters, oxytocin is released—a chemical that promotes social bonding and helps build trust.
- Cortisol – Tension, stress, or fear in the story triggers cortisol to be released: a chemical connected with increased alertness and memory of danger.
- Endorphins – Endorphins are connected with humor and emotional highs, as it creates pleasure and usually relieves pain. That’s why seeing someone else get hurt makes us laugh, reducing a pain that we might be feeling, and the reason why humor is a remedy to stress and depression.
Understanding these chemicals isn’t just interesting—it gives storytellers tools. For storytelling, knowing and targeting these emotional triggers can increase the chances that your story will be heard and felt. But there are other factors that you need to consider when telling a story. For the effectiveness of targeting emotions to actually work: grabbing attention—in other words used in marketing, engagement.
Storytelling Engagement – The Art of Keeping Attention
Imagine having unlimited bars of gold? Or a Genie in a bottle with unlimited wishes? Keeping someone’s attention for more than a few seconds or minutes can be almost impossible today. Having this skill is extremely valuable. Why? Because I know my attention is short, but long compared to most. Let’s look further and answer why high school or college lectures were sleep inducing. “Start with where the action is” – Simon Sinek’s theory. But it makes sense. Give a reason for the audience to care. That’s why teachers have difficulty in grabbing students’ attention. Unless you’re in a science class, with fire or interesting things to look at. Looking back, does drive a point. Simon uses a small framework that can help hook from the start.
- “Set the scene simply”
- “Jump into action”
- “Save the lesson”
What’s the reason you are telling the story? Give the listener or reader a reason to care. Ok, let me try: “It’s 5:45 am. On our way to go outside, my dog decides to pee all over the apartment lobby. I still have to get ready for work and stuff. In my head I’m like—Yup. It’s gonna be one of those days.”
- Set the scene simply: “It’s 5:45 am…”
- Jump into action: “My dog decides to pee all over the apartment lobby.”
- Save the lesson: “In my head I’m like—Yup. It’s gonna be one of those days.”
This example also ties to targeting the emotional triggers, mentioned in the prior section. Adding an unexpected, stressful moment, triggering a cortisol release. Then shifting to emotional relatability, for dog owners and even non-dog owners. As most people have been in a rushed, or helpless situation. Targeting oxytocin in the attempt of building an emotional connection. And if this never happened to you? Welp! YOU SPECIAL.
Then what causes people to lose attention and engagement? Many of us have learned about the term “weave” or “weaving” as rambling, too much detail, or stepping outside the main path of the story. Weaving happens when the story loses focus, when the original point gets buried under unnecessary layers. Instead of building emotion, it drains attention. The listener is left wondering: “Why are you telling me this again?” Detail is not bad, but it can be damaging to the moment. Let the listener ask for more if needed. Its normal to weave, but always keeping a reminder for how we would feel on the other end when telling a story, gets you to realize what you are doing and come right back to the point. The more you pay attention to this, the better we get. In conversations, if I notice myself doing this, ill say. Where was I going with this? To stop and go right back to the main point to try and save the conversation. If I’m too far from saving, I let them tell me if they want to know more. They will usually ask “…so what happened?!”
Balance: Emotion with Structure
The newscaster on television: “Explosion in the Sky — SpaceX’s launch is an unsuccessful success.”
Emotion is what makes people care, while structure helps them follow along — providing a beginning, middle, and end. Structure gives direction. Emotion draws the listener in; it hooks them, building a connection that keeps them engaged. The best stories make people feel something — joy, fear, anger, awe, or hope — enhancing the impact of the content itself. Structure ensures clarity. It provides a clear understanding of the setting, context, causes, and outcomes. Great stories are easy to follow, while over complicated ones often confuse the plot and leave characters forgettable.
Using a basic story structure may seem simple, but it’s powerful. It helps people remember the story without overthinking
Basic Story Structure
- Hook – Grab attention emotionally or dramatically.
- Set the Scene – Give necessary context (who, what, where).
- Build the Tension – Introduce conflict, stakes, or rising challenges.
- The Turning Point – The climax where change or realization happens.
- The Lesson/Takeaway – End with what was learned or what the audience should reflect on.
Conclusion: Storytelling Isn’t Just a Skill — It’s a Superpower
Storytelling is more than entertainment or marketing fluff. It’s a human technology—wired into our biology, emotions, and evolution. When done right, storytelling releases a mix of brain chemicals that help us connect, remember, and care. That’s powerful. But power without direction can be wasted. That’s why understanding the structure and the emotional triggers is so important. Emotion draws people in, but structure keeps them engaged. It’s the balance between feeling and form that turns a forgettable tale into something worth sharing.
We live in a world where attention is scarce, distractions are constant, and genuine connection is harder to come by. A well-told story cuts through all that. Whether you’re pitching an idea, giving a speech, or just trying to be less awkward in conversation—mastering storytelling is one of the most valuable things you can do. So next time you speak, write, or post, ask yourself: Am I just sharing information? Or am I telling a story worth remembering?
Because in the end, the right story, told the right way, doesn’t just inform — it moves people.
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